| A | B |
| shy | too nervous to talk confidently |
| blushing | pink face color when embarrassed |
| well adjusted | able to deal with probems |
| stereotype | wrong idea about what people are like |
| self-consciousness | worrying about what others think of you |
| ill at ease | nervous |
| snobbish | believing you're better than other people |
| spontaneous | not planned |
| identity crisis | unsure of who you are |
| perfectionist | person who tries to do things perfectly |
| stammering | repeating a sound when you talk |
| tremble | to shake when you are afraid |
| butterflies in the stomach | to feel nervous |
| surface | on the outside |
| actually | truthfully |
| seldom | rarely |
| amazed | surprised |
| abnormal | not typical or usual |
| distress | worry & sadness |
| culturally determined | depending on your national origin |
| innate | quality you are born with |
| confronted by | to face, take action on |
| rejection | not accepting something or someone |
| techniques | ways to do something |
| tips | good ideas |
| teasing | joking in a mean way |