| A | B | 
| be proactive | take responsibility for your actions | 
| begin with the end in mind | allows you to live your life with hope and a purpose | 
| put first things first | the strength to say yes to important things and no to less important things | 
| win-win | getting along well with other people | 
| seek first to understand, then to be understood | listen first, talk second, see things from another persons point of view before sharing your own | 
| synergize | when two or more people work together to create a better solution than either could alone | 
| sharpen the saw | renewing yourself and balancing the key areas of your life: physical, mental, social/emotional, and spiritual | 
| pagadigm | is the way you think about and see things | 
| principle | a natural law or basic truth | 
| private victory | self-mastery, winning the battles within yourself | 
| reactive | acted upon and controlled by events and emotions | 
| personal mission statement | a personal credo or motto that states what your life is about | 
| public victory | success with other people; your ability to get along with others | 
| win-lose | when people only want to win and don't care if others lose | 
| lose-win | when people allow others to win even when it means they lose | 
| lose-lose | when people believe that if they go down, then others must go down with them | 
| mirroring | repeating back in your own words what another person is saying and feeling |