A | B |
love and be loved, belong to a group, feel worthwhile | 3 basic emotional needs of human beings |
heart rate increases, muscles tighten, more alert | 3 things that may happen to body when you are stressed |
headache, depression, diabetes, heart disease | health problems related to stress |
gambling, overeating, not eating, too much sleep | 3 negative coping strategies to deal with stress/anxiety |
keep out of trouble, hurting another person, getting hurt yourself | 2 reasons to keep anger in |
release tension, solve a problem, letting someone know how you feel | 2 reasons to let anger out |
talking, deep breathng, positive thinking | 3 positive methods for staying in control when you are angry |
message sent, message received | 2 thngs that have to happen for effective communication to occur |
be specific, don't mix message, ask questions | 3 things that are important for the person sending the message |
pay attention, actively listen | 2 things important for the person receiving a message |
open: person must respond more than just yes/no; closed: responds with a yes/no | difference between open-ended question and a close-ended question |
making a request, expresing how you feel, saying no | 3 times in which it is helpful to be assertive |
flattery | say nice things |
reasoning/facts | use logic |
popularity | how well you are liked |
bandwagon | everybody is doing it |
sugar coating | only point out the good/positive, not bad/negative |
belittling | making someone feel small/worthles |
stay calm, keep other person calm and listen, be assertive, solve problem together | 4 steps on how to work through a conflict with another person |
assertive | bold, confident, respectful |
aggressive | combative, hostile |
passive | lacking will, not resisting/responding |
mixed message | 1 meaning verbally, another nonverbally |
rage | violent, uncontrolled anger |
negative coping | offers short term relief, makes problem worse |