| A | B |
| Step One - Using Humor | Evaluate the situation. Is this a good time or place? |
| Step Two - Using Humor | Evaluate the speaker. Read body language. |
| Step Two / part II - Using Humor | Would he or she appreciate humor at this time? |
| Step Two / part III - Using Humor | Be aware that a fall or mistake might be funny at a later time, at not at the time of the incident. |
| Step Three - Using Humor | Is the subject of the humor appropriate? |
| Step Four - Using Humor | Make EYE CONTACT! |
| Step Five - Using Humor | Share the humor. |
| Step Six - Using Humor | Be sure the humor was taken correctly. |
| Step One - Waiting your turn | Sit or stand quietly. |
| Step Two - Waiting your turn | Keep your arms and legs still. |
| Step Three - Waiting your turn | Avoid sighing or whining about having to wait. |
| Step Four - Waiting your turn | Join in the activity when invited or directed. |
| Step Five - Waiting your turn | Thank someone who gives you a turn. |