| A | B |
| Appropriate language and speak kindly | Everyone has fun and learns/improves their game |
| Good winner | No gloating |
| Good looser | No complaining or wining about results of game or ref call |
| Pay attention | Don't delay the game |
| Stay on task, even when it isn't your turn | Don't delay game, don't distract others |
| Feel good when you win because you beat worthy competitors | Don't try to make others mess up |
| Let others make their own plays | Don't take right to play away from others |
| Help with set up, clean up, transitioning to next activity, etc. | Don't shirk your responsibilities |
| Take turns | Don't be a ball hog |
| Promote positive experience for everyone | Don't criticize others who make mistakes |
| Follow the golden rule | Treat others the way you want to be treated |