| A | B |
| 把他惯坏了 bǎ tā guànhuài le | you’ve spoiled him |
| 要什么给什么yào shénme gěi shénme | you give him whatever he wants |
| 什么都由着他 shénme dōu yóuzhe tā | everything revolves around him |
| 是害了他,知道吗 shì hài le tā, zhīdào ma | you’re hurting him, you know |
| 姥姥姥爷宠着他,是因为你们常常不在 lǎolao lǎoyé chǒngzhe tā, shì yīnwèi nǐmen chángcháng bùzài | grandma and grandpa (maternal) dote on him, because you are often away |
| 怕委屈了孩子 pà wěiqu le háizi | worry that you are not doing right by him |
| 慢慢严格要求 mànman yángé yāoqiú | bit by bit become stricter |
| 怕来不及了pà láibují le | I’m afraid it’s too late |